No matter what age or shape you are, a few small steps can change your whole perspective on how you look and how you feel.
Are you stuck in a fashion groove?
Do you ignore current fashion trends and consider that style is only something that comes with money and fame?
Do you go for the same safe styles and colors when out shopping?
Do you wear the same “best” outfit to every important meeting or social occasion?
Do you turn down invitations because you have nothing to wear?
Are You Stuck in a one-style fashion?
If you are the kind of person that stares at your wardrobe yet still cannot find something suitable to put on, then you may well be stuck in a one-style fashion. If thinking what to wear to the office every morning has become a nightmare, then it is time to update your look!
First of all, just remember these major rules:
SIZE DOES NOT MATTER! (when it comes to fashion styles)Being stylish has nothing to do with your SIZE. It is about making the most of your shape.
Being stylish does not have to break the bank. In the words of Victoria Beckham in her latest book That Extra Half an Inch, (2007) “Whether you’ve got £20 to spend in Top Shop or £2,000 to spend at Gucci, looking good isn’t about money, it’s about style, and style never goes out of fashion.” (great advice,Posh!)
Getting older (or poorer) is no excuse to become stuck in just a style. If you are unemployed or a stay-at-home mum, whilst having children and keeping house may mean you have less time and money to spend on yourself , that doesn’t mean that you should feel any less attractive and desirable than you did when you were young, free and single or working!
ATTITUDE + CONFIDENT = FASHION STYLE + TREND SETTER
Fashion style is also about ATTITUDE. Feel CONFIDENT in yourself about the way you look and that will affect others too. In the words of fashion designer icon Coco Chanel, “Fashion is architecture. It’s a matter of proportions.”
Try not to think much about the word “fashion” and think “style” – it may be mentally less intimidating or more “wearable".
Even if you stay at home, make an effort to dress or wear makeup/accessories everyday as if you are going out. This changes your whole approach to even the most mundane household chores. You will find you have a more optimistic attitude and are less inclined to be reduced to a couch potato, in your slovenly sweat pants and baggy T-shirt.
Overhaul your wardrobe--Get rid of those items which are outdated, do not suit you or simply do not make you feel good. Make room for that new wardrobe of clothes that you are going to build, slowly, piece by piece.
Take stock of how many classic items you currently have in your closet. Start building new outfits which will prove versatile and timeless – go anywhere and do anything. You should aim to have a wardrobe base of well cut, classic pieces and a few cheap fun, fashionable outfits that are right on trend, which can be replaced every season.
Treat your wardrobe as an investment. Create a closet that is full of must-have pieces rather than make-do ones.
Ensure that your wardrobe is built around some style staples which will take you from season to season and can be dressed up or down. A good coat/blazer, a little black dress, well cut denims, a classic pair of black/plain coloured pants, and a stylish crisp white or plain shirt. Update these looks every season or 3-4 months with some fabulous accessories.
Don't forget, buy a really great bag and a pair of stylish shoes which will transform any simple outfit to superb.
Dress accordingly to your body shape. Are you a pear, apple, brick, hour glass or inverted triangle?
It is important to tone down your flaws and make the most of your assets.
Shop smarter. Ask yourself a few key questions regarding what suits you before you shop and plan what to buy in advance.
There is never a better time than the start of the new year to create a brand new you.
Detox your wardrobe, clearing out those outfits which do not make you feel good. The second is to learn what cuts and colors work best for you and the basic style rules of women's fashion.
Have you checked these essential items in your wardrobe?
1. Little Black Dress (for plus sizes too)
2. Bag (courtesy of Christian Dior A/W 2010 python detective briefcase)
3. Shoes (courtesy of Tabitha Simmons A/W 2010 suede trim lace up bailee sandal)
4. Long Pants/Jeans/Skirt
5. White/Plain Shirt
6. Accessories (courtesy of Sonia Rykiel A/W 2010 studded resin bracelets)
Now you can feel more relax since you are no longer wedged on the Fashion highway;)
source: Women's Fashion by Gill Hart